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Self-Improvement Tips : How to Be Charismatic

March 2, 2011

Becoming charismatic requires genuineness and empathy. Find out how to be charismatic with tips from a professional psychologist in this free video about self-improvement tips. Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn Contact: Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and He is also the author of ‘Dynamic Dating’ and ‘Boomer Girls, a Women’s Guide to Men and Dating.’ Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

25 Comments leave one →
  1. deeboyoto permalink
    March 2, 2011 5:28 pm

    @Fakinoris I agree. But at the same time there is nothing with trying to better your self. If im poor is there something wrong with changing up my lifestyle to get a better job. Adaptation is change,and every species on this planet that didn’t adapt is extinct. I honestly don’t think that you were going this war with the don’t change thing but other people may get the wrong idea

  2. shermalynn permalink
    March 2, 2011 6:09 pm

    this “professional” is wrong 😛 well this was a waste of my time..i might as well ask the hobo down the street and i bet he would be more correct :3

  3. thehapagirl92 permalink
    March 2, 2011 6:12 pm

    Winning… but not.

  4. ShlttyBill permalink
    March 2, 2011 6:54 pm

    this is fucked

  5. BNZ1990 permalink
    March 2, 2011 7:27 pm


    Hitler was charismatic because he appealed to the darker emotions, wants and desires of the public…i.e. he was empathetic of their more sinister feelings, sometimes feelings that can be extremely strong and dominating, once he was in power is when people saw the other side to him, he didn’t need charisma anymore.

  6. MrSuperdude12345 permalink
    March 2, 2011 7:32 pm

    Thumbs up if you think he sounds like the speakonia voice

  7. legggggggggy permalink
    March 2, 2011 8:27 pm

    The least charismatic guy telling how to be charismatic. I am writing this with a charismatic smile on my face. And you just became charismatic after reading my comment. This comment is charismatic.

  8. haproductions permalink
    March 2, 2011 8:31 pm

    i wonder how many ladies he brings back to this setup… now thats charisma

  9. bodypowr permalink
    March 2, 2011 8:41 pm

    @perfectie Wrong! You cant influence people unless you have the ability to understand what needs they have: “Empathy is the capacity to recognize and, to some extent, share feelings (such as sadness or happiness) that are being experienced by another semi-sentient being.” Hitler had empathy in abundance. I believe sympathy is the word your looking for…

  10. jeannedarc2007 permalink
    March 2, 2011 9:24 pm

    charisma has nothing to do with empathy. Charisma is how other people see YOU, not how you behave yourself. Certain actors for instance are diva’s on sets however no one can deny they come across as charming on a movie screen. That cannot be taught, contrary to what this man tells you, as it strikes with the concept of charisma

  11. IncubusTR permalink
    March 2, 2011 9:28 pm

    cool story bro

  12. IncubusTR permalink
    March 2, 2011 10:17 pm

    cool story bro

  13. AntiNephiLehi51 permalink
    March 2, 2011 10:29 pm

    Hitler. . . so is Obama. Freakin commie.

  14. intentx permalink
    March 2, 2011 10:57 pm

    @perfectie hitler put himself in post world war one Germany shoes and related with everybody and persuaded a strong point that the Jewish people and the rich of their hierarchy was the problem and showed a strong level of confidence doing so, Charisma is a stretch between confidence, empathy and speech

  15. arianbreed permalink
    March 2, 2011 11:42 pm

    looks like he is in a porn setting…lol

  16. maadskittles permalink
    March 2, 2011 11:46 pm

    How to be charismatic…..He says be charismatic..Lol

  17. Fakinoris permalink
    March 3, 2011 12:41 am

    don”t try to be a person that you are not, if you do, you never have real friends, the friends you have will only love the ”person”’ that you are trying to be and they will never know who you really are.

  18. stoltobot permalink
    March 3, 2011 12:50 am

    @perfectie Hitler was a sociopath however. He could fake empathy and tell lies all day long and feel no guilt or shame about it.

  19. InstructorKM permalink
    March 3, 2011 1:00 am

    His body language is terrible.
    not for those kind of topic man

  20. ry27sm permalink
    March 3, 2011 1:07 am

    Seriously this “doctor’s” advice is garbage.

    His knowledge is “paper” thin (pun intended).

  21. goatman257 permalink
    March 3, 2011 1:23 am

    So that’s where Les Battersby went after he left the street.

  22. omarlives permalink
    March 3, 2011 1:53 am

    @osha90210 does he come off as charismatic to you!? If you say yes, ur never going to be charismatic, ever!

  23. omarlives permalink
    March 3, 2011 2:27 am

    @guarimn You mean like a jedi mind trick?

  24. guarimn permalink
    March 3, 2011 2:55 am

    Respond to this video…
    Most people are like that guy. They don’t connect with others because they are not honest with themselves. For whatever reason they don’t take the time to learning learn about and feel out the feelings of others. There is evidence that psychopaths mimic others yet they don’t feel the emotions fully. The guy above may not feel his feelings fully either, but for different reasons. A lot of people don’t empathize. It’s not that they cant. they just don’t.

  25. guarimn permalink
    March 3, 2011 3:27 am

    @Ironandtheshizzelz I speak words I don’t mean, and mean things I don’t say. I conceal my feelings all the time. To others I may seem fake. There’s was something wrong once and I learned the wrong lessons. Im not the person that I think I am and I try to be someone that Im not. I must assume that this perplexing to others. I know that it is extremely confusing to me. I can feel like Im fooling everybody but Im not. My feelings, my heart, is keep secret. I keep others away.

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